Posts Tagged: gay marriage australia


11
Oct 10

GILLARD: WE OPPOSE IT BECAUSE WE OPPOSE IT

Gillard with her boyfriend Tim Mathieson

Photo: Ray Strange, Gillard with her boyfriend

I am glad to see I am not going mad … this article from The Australian by Niki Savva, similarly fails to find Australian Prime Minister Julia Gillard ever giving a reason for why she opposes gay marriage.

Yet more of my friends have now signed up to work for Ms Gillard.  And I am pretty sure all of them also support marriage equality.  So that’s an interesting gap to fill:  getting her staff to say what they really think, and getting the Prime Minister to give an actual reason why she opposes it.

Just opposing something because you do is OK for a six year old, it might have been OK in medieval times.  It just does not cut it in 21st century politics.


7
Sep 10

A LETTER TO ROB OAKESHOTT

Australia now has a renewed Labor Government with the Greens holding the power in the Senate from July 2011 – which is about as good as it gets in election outcomes for marriage advocates.

In the Lower House (where the Prime Minister sits) one man was crucial to allowing Julia Gillard to reform government: Rob Oakeshott.

Here a young gay man, who grew up just an hour or so from where I grew up, has written a touching letter to Mr Oakeshott about why he should act on the needs of gay men and lesbians. This man, like so many others, felt he had to move to Sydney after being marginalised because of his sexuality in his hometown.

I hope this sparks of a major letter-writing campaign. And congratulations to this anonymous young man!
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18
Aug 10

THIS IS HOW IT IS DONE

Bob Brown and his partner Paul Thomas

Bob Brown and his partner Paul Thomas, photo credit: Stefan Postles for The Age

Bob Brown, the leader of Australia’s major minor party the Greens (not sure how else to describe a party with 15% support) spoke openly today about why he and his party support marriage equality.  Addresses to the Australia’s National Press Club are as big as it gets for serious political speeches in Australia.

It’s also the first time I’ve ever seen Brown photographed with his long-time partner Paul Thomas.  And I’ve certainly never seen a gay cuddle at a political event in Australia. That’s great – more of it please!  Interestingly that makes it a 2 out of 3 chance that the “first spouse” will be a man after Saturday’s election.


5
Aug 10

MARRIAGES ABROAD THWARTED

Australian coat of arms

This is extremely frustrating, if as bad as is reported here … the Australian Government will continue to refuse to issue Certificates of Non-impdeiment to marriage (CNIs) to their citizens seeking same sex marriages aborad

 This goes against a recommendation of the Australian Senate.  And it is personally infuriating … in theory it would block me as an Australian citizen getting married if I so chose in the country that I live in, Belgium, which does allow same sex marriage. It’s not enough to make me second class at home, apparently I have to be chased around the world being second-class too! 

What rational basis is there for this?  It’s pathetic.  And it makes it much harder for people who want to work sympathetically with the Australian Government to move this debate forward. It puts the Australian Government out of the territory marked ‘weak but sympathetic’ and into the territory marked ‘actively mean and pathetic.’

 


26
Jul 10

MAKE MY DAUGHTER EQUAL!

the family from Wollongong fighting to make both daughthers equal

My name is Evelyn. I live in Wollongong about 90 minutes south of Sydney. I’ve been married to Peter for 36 years and we have two daughters, Emily, 31, a lawyer and Sarah, 25, an accountant.

I grew up in England, and emigrated to Australia in 1973. I met my husband in 1968 while studying for a degree in Biological Sciences at university in the UK. I wanted to teach, so I completed a Diploma of Education in primary school teaching and taught in the north of England and in London for a year before making the move to Australia. We were among the last of those who were known as ‘ten pound Poms’, as that was the price we paid for the flight from England.  We came to Australia to join my parents and sisters who had emigrated here in 1971.

Peter and I had very simple wedding with family and the few friends that we’d made in the 11 months since our arrival in Australia. In was in a church (like everyone did in those days) in Wollongong, with a Pizza Hut shaped roof and the minister was happy for me to omit the ‘obey’ in the ceremony! I travelled to the church in my sister’s orange Datsun 120Y, with a plastic hand-held fan to stop my make-up melting in the heat! The reception that followed was in my parents’ rumpus room!

Peter and I like to think of our family as a very close one…. Continue reading →


24
Jul 10

HOW WOULD LABOR CABINET VOTE ON GAY MARRIAGE IN AUSTRALIA?

Australia's Labor Cabinet

Australia's Labor government

There has been a lot of fuss and discussion – and rightly so about these comments here from Penny Wong and Julia Gillard’s ‘personal view’ that marriage is between a man and a woman.  But  how would a re-elected Labor Cabinet actually vote on marriage equality if the issue were ever put to a vote?

The answer may surprise youand give strong hope of progress if we can get a real debate happening. Having dealt with most of these people in various capacities in the last 10 years, in my analysis there are Definite yes:  6, Probable yes: 5, Swinging: 3 Probable no: 7, Definite no: 0

TOTAL LEANING YES: 11  SWING: 3  TOTAL LEANING NO: 7 (full reasoning later in article)

How is this possible you might be wondering? Continue reading →


6
Jul 10

CATH BOWTELL STEPS OUT OF CLOSET …

Cath Bowtell, Labor for Melbourne

… on marriage equality.  That’s right, Cath Bowtell the Australian Labor Party’s candidate for the seat of Melbourne is being open and honest and progressive about marriage equality.  That makes a nice change from the silence of most parliamentarians from the party. The ones who do speak publicly – like new Prime Minister Julia Gillard – usually make disappointing but evasive comments like ‘the party has defined marriage and between a man and a woman,’ or similar.

That odd approach makes it infinitely harder to have a proper public debate because many of key players effectively refuse to show up to have the debate.  Hopefully Ms Bowtell, a long-time trade unionist, can lead the way to a fear-free discussion about gay marriage after the 2010 election. She has many allies in the party, they just aren’t all as brave as her.  Tomorrow, I will do a list of which Ministers will or are likely to vote for equality in 2011 if there is a vote.


18
May 10

ESSAY: LOVE IN A COLD CLIMATE

Here is a new essay I’ve written about marriage inequality in my home country of Australia.

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The institution of marriage is so much a part of life’s furniture that it is taken for granted by millions of Australians. We cannot imagine an Australia without it, so we do not bother to imagine it at all in a national or political sense. But for more than a million Australians, marriage cannot be taken for granted. It cannot be taken at all.

20
Apr 10

AUSSIE ELECTION ACTION

Opposition leader Tony Abbott (left) and Prime Minister Kevin Rudd (right)

Opposition Leader Tony Abbott (left) and Prime Minister Kevin Rudd (right)

Australian Marriage Equality wants Australians to get out of their own closest and make marriage equality an issue in the 2010 Australian election, due in the second half of the year.

Australian Prime Minister Kevin Rudd is the political leader closest to Barack Obama in outlook , according to Obama himself . On gay marriage that’s the problem … neither Obama or Rudd support it. Both are out of closet, but far from the main stage when it comes to gay and lesbian equality.  The main opposition party is worse – its leader looks great in Speedos, but says that gay men make him uncomfortable.

Minor parties and parts of the ruling Labor party support equalilty, many conservatives also support equality.  More power to them.