Divorce


24
Aug 11

NEW BELGIAN STATISTICS

Belgian gay marriage statistics

Belgian gay marriage statistics (French key)

For the first time more lesbians than gays are marrying in Belgium, according to very interesting and detailed gay marraige statistics released in Belgium today by the Free University of Brussels (ULB) and published in French in Le Soir.

So far more than 17,000 gays and lesbians have married since 2003, with numbers reasonably steady at about 2,000 per year. Not bad for a small country of 10 million.

But the really interesting figures are the regional and gender breakdowns.

As many same sex couples married in the Flemish city of Antwerp (population 450,000) in 2010, as in the whole of Wallonia, the French speaking part of Belgium (population 3.5 million).  Even more than a highly international city like Brussels, the people of Flanders are addicted to same sex marriage. With only four times the population Flanders was responsible for eight times as many same sex marriages as the Brussels region.  (768 to 92 in 2010!)

Regarding the rise of the women, it is suggested that this is to make parenting arrangements easier to complete (including adoption not just insemination). Indeed, it is a little known fact that lesbians flock to Belgium for IVF treatment and adoption options, especially catering to French women in some instances).

Divorce is also on the rise for both gay and lesbian couples, but the study’s author says it is too early to give a meaningful comparison between homosexual and heterosexual divorce rates in Belgium. Seven years after the start of equality, about 8% of same sex couples have divorced.

The prediction of the author, David Paternotte, who is also looking at gay marrriages of people in France and Spain is clear “there is without doubt a snowball effect both in terms of rights affirmed by government and by jurisprudence (the courts)”


14
Jul 11

LESBIANS IN THE LEAD

 Lesbian Wedding Pictures, Images and Photos

First up – the overall queer community is marrying at the same rate as opposite sex couples in Massachusetts, thanks to same sex female couples outnumbering the men two to one.

Secondly, in terms of UK divorces lesbians were also in the lead in 2010 (maybe not in a good way)  about 3.3% dissolving their partnership compared to 1.6% of the men. These rates are still lower than that of opposite sex couples.

So, we are not marrying less or divorcing more it seems.  That’s  both no news and good news all round the push for equality I would say.


27
Mar 11

ONLY 20% OF DUTCH GAYS MARRY

Dutch couple married on Amsterdam canal

Radio Netherlands is always coming up with interesting stories on LGBT issues – I recommend them. Here they trace what happened after 10 years of full gay marriage for the Dutch.

It’s turn out that the Dutch aren’t that keen on gay marriage. That is, they support it in principle but they don’t tie the knot very often. While 80% of heterosexual couples are married, only 20% of gay couples are.
Divorce rates are roughly the same.

I don’t fully trust these figures. They suggest just 15,000 marriages have been created, meaning there are only 60-80,000 gay couples in a highly liberal country of 16 million.  That clearly can’t be right. But to the extent that the 20% figure is wrong, the real figure can only be lower.


5
Dec 10

20 TIMES MORE WEDDINGS THAN DIVORCES IN UK

Caroline, Jack and Linzi Robertson

Caroline, Jack and Linzi Robertson

This is quite an interesting article from a Scottish newspaper. Shows that wedding rates are down, and divorce (dissolution) rates are up on the 5th anniversary of the UK’s civil partnership legislation.

The divorce is still much lower than for straight couples. There are 20 times more weddings than divorces each year.


23
Sep 10

GAYS TOGETHER STAY TOGETHER

LESBIAN wedding on TV's Little Britain

A Welsh lesbian wedding on "Little Britain"

Wedded gay and lesbian couples from Wales in the United Kingdom are far more likely to stay together than married straight couples.

While a quarter of marriages end in divorce within five years, just 3.2% of civil partnerships have been dissolved since they were introduced in December 2005. Only 47 of 1,447 civil partnerships have been dissolved (it’s not divorce in nearly equal but unequal UK)
According to one relationship counsellor interviewed by South Wales Echo newspaper, Denise Knowles, “People are entering into them because they desperately want to, not because they feel they ought to.”

Exactly.


26
Apr 10

DIVORCE BETTER THAN BEING GAY?

Liz Taylor

This great blog post here asks some very important questions.  In the week when Larry King gets his eigth divorce and Elizabeth Taylor seemed to be on track for a ninth marriage – why is divorce still more socially acceptable than gay marriage?

How can their be general acceptance – a shrug of the shoulders from most (even if people think they are crazy) – of the right to do as Larry and Elizabeth do, while so many of the same people oppose the idea of gays marrying at all.   Liz Taylor herself is a huge supporter of equality.

It’s not rational to at once accept these multiple divorces and oppose marriage equality. Homphobia is the only reason for doing so, however it is dressed up. If you think otherwise, you’re kidding yourself: only homophobes oppose marriage equality.


18
Apr 10

SAME SEX D-I-V-O-R-C-E

From the cover of Paul Burston's book 'The Gay Divorcee'

One of the biggest problems facing the first same sex couples to marry is ensuring their marriage is portable across borders, and ensuring they can end it if things go badly wrong.  My own country, Australia, makes you leave your marriage at the border along with fruit and soiled shoes, for example.

But opponents of gay marriage keep moving the goalposts on all of this.

Texan Republicans are actively stopping married gay couples from divorcing – forcing more of the same marriages they think should not exist, when gays themselves want out.  Make up your mind people.

The fact is marriage does not crumble and divorce does not skyrocket if equality exists (see the Netherlands and the lowest ever divorce rates in Massachusetts.)