I can’t be the only gay person who gets frustrated with the ignorance of homosexuality experienced by many straight people - so which one of you is more like the man in the relationship? who screws who? where does this bit go when you …?
I don’t blame anyone for ignorance – almost no-one learns about gay relationships in schools. But it is fundamentally misplaced … gender roles are often different in same sex relationships. There isn’t a husband and a wife in a gay marriage – there’s just two people figuring out how to get along.
And that is one of the great steps forward a society makes in endorsing the right to marriage for everyone. We continue to break down silly ideas that certain activities and roles should be carried out by one gender only.
You can bake cookies and chop firewood and that is 100% normal. You can work or not work. Maybe no-one screws anyone in a gay marriage.
Tags: gay gender roles, gay marriage, gender roles, gender roles in gay relationships, lesbian gender role, marriage equality
I think a bit of curiosity is healthy. I was once sitting around with a group of friends enjoying an après-ski beer in a pub in the Alps and we got on to the subject of sex. As far as I remember I was the only gay guy there. Anyway, we started talking about what turns us on and I said that looking into the eyes of my partner was the hottest thing for me.
One of the guys, John, asked how this was possible during gay sex: he seemed to be under the impression that one had to be infront of the other.. Anyway, as luck would have it, John was sat on an armchair, so I was able to look him in the eyes, walk over, then straddle him on the chair without his gaze leaving mine.
I’d like to think this was somehow educational but actually it was just funny.
This is the dirtiest thing i have ever seen and heard any body say in my life, how can a same sex eye turn some one on? less you we forget, sodom and gomora where punished for this sin and the same sin is reencarnating, participants under which ever guise should be prepared to face the fullwrath of God.